Anonymous asked: Hi I'm an early teen and I went to the mall with this guy I really like but he doesn't like like me and he had his expectations too high and we went and it was the most awkward moment. I cried and now I don't know what to do!
Being so so young I gotta tell you that you have a lot of guys in your future. The best advice I have heard is don’t put too much importance or emphasis on this one guy. Think about how you are in the first chapter of a whole book of your life (sounds sooo cheesy). Try to just take each of these experiences as a lighthearted outing. You’ll be stronger next time. I used to be shy and uncomfortable about talking to guys or anyone, but these moments help you, they are experiences. Given what went wrong this time you’ll know what didn’t work next. Eventually you will be more comfortable.
I am not the best to give advice on guy trouble but I’ve been in the situation your in. I am the queen of this situation. I still to this day go home and cry after dates if they didn’t turn out the way I wanted. It all has something to do expectations, they screw things up.
And ‘early teen guys’ don’t even know who or what they like, so don’t worry. I am sure you made a impression on him. I call it “planting the seed”. You got to just trust that if it is suppose to happen, it will happen. But for now don’t wait for it, pursue your passions!